| Trading Psychology How do we learn to conquer our fear and greed? Discuss the mental aspects of the game. |
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![]() | Holding Yourself Accountable I have a great significant other that is very supportive and willing to listen, when I am willing to talk... In other words, our conversations about my day range from me talking for awhile to "good". Usually "good" is code for, I just don't feel like talking about a bad day. And it's easy for me to leave it at that as she doesn't push too hard. I can't be the only one in our TL community thinking - I could really use some more accountability here... Maybe I am, who knows.But we have such a good core group of traders here that I thought I would toss this out there and see what is hit back at me... The real question is - how/who/when/where/etc do you make yourself accountable so that you stay on track and keep pushing for more (if you do at all)? And if you don't, why not? I just recall my days a broker where being accountable and knowing that you would be singled out was enough motivation for me to always be in the top part of the class. I simply did not want to be 'that guy' that is always struggling... So what are some ideas for accountability then? I mean, we live in a world where technology makes just about anything possible, so what are some ways that myself (and others here if interested) could be more accountable? My ideas: 1) A "How was your day thread". This is the question that is asked by our loved ones, but we don't always feel like opening up. This thread could go anywhere... your thoughts, comments, charts, P&L captures, etc. etc.Some ideas... Maybe James has an idea or two on the programming side that could work if there was interest. I guess it just boils down to being accountable to the point where you are motivated to do your job and do it consistently... Let the discussion begin. | ||
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![]() | Re: Holding Yourself Accountable For example a newbie probably shouldn't be held accountable on p&l, but instead he should be held accountable on his trading plan. I have a meeting every Friday with the guy who funds me and I make him hold me accountable. We sit down and discuss what trades were taken and why, and if they were apart of my trading plan. You can grade each trade, and then sum up the total of the day. An example of this would be. 4 - Trade that was in your plan, and the target was hit. 3 - Trade that was in your plan - got out before target was hit but was profitable 2 - broke even 1 - stop was hit 0 - Trade taken not in the plan, profitable or not. You can also grade each set of trades specifically in excel. This may help to find inefficient trades, and other possible patterns. With a more experienced trader, there could be other ways to hold accountability that might include P&L. But sharing that sort of thing with others is sort of taboo, and some might not feel comfortable telling others. Blogs work, but take up a ton of time. Same with making videos. This could be a good thread, and it would be nice to have a part of the forum specifically for accountability. Maybe not an actual forum, but something separate like our blogs and videos. | ||
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![]() | Re: Holding Yourself Accountable Some ideas to consider. | ||
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![]() | Re: Holding Yourself Accountable Currently, I trade with my dad so it's obvious the accountability is open everyday through our communication and of course our daily P/L. Getting someone involved has to be the right person who understands the same objective is right way. Maybe not necessarily your boss but an equal but tough-ass, "call it as I see it" kind of trader as your mentor/partner.
__________________ "Today is not my day, but it'll be my week." | ||
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![]() | Re: Holding Yourself Accountable Theres a couple of prongs to this attack. Simply by keeping a journal you force yourself to be more accountable (depending on how well it's done). Secondly if you outline your goals up front you might get critiques and 'peer pressure' from kindly souls here. I dont think strings of numbers are likely to cut it but short succinct dialogue might? | ||
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![]() | Re: Holding Yourself Accountable Quote:
And knowing that you will have to answer to someone should hopefully provide added motivation to get the job done properly. | ||
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I just don't want/need to devote an immense amount of time to this either. A blog requires time and dedication. A journal requires time and dedication. And I don't want something to turn into a - please show me how you trade thread either... That's why I liked James_gsx's idea of creating a little template type thing where you quickly and easily answer the question we all get from our significant others - How was your day? | ||
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