08-05-2011, 09:08 AM
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| Re: Overcoming the Fear of Loss (Pulling the Trigger) Quote:
Originally Posted by steve46 » Today was an excellent day in class...we all made money
The reason I am posting is that this is contrast to yesterday, when we started out with a couple of losses, one of which was caused by a loss of Internet connection while trying to exit a trade.
What I noticed was the following. On the first trade, as people saw it go against them, you could feel the tension as traders watched each tick, and asked me (what do you think Steve, do we get out or wait)....and my answer was....stay calm, breath slowly, monitor your data, remember that your stop is already in place protecting you....just watch and wait, you have plenty of time.....
In the time span of about 3 minutes we got stopped out on our first trade and the reaction was "OK then what do we do now?" and my reaction was, "we remember to keep our head in the game"....."when we have a losing trade, we don't get down, we don't go over and over the trade, we stay in the moment and watch how the market acts.....and we ask ourselves, what is the market telling us".....as it turned out this was an important lesson to learn.....because withing the next 5 minutes I took a long that turned against me and then lost my Internet connection.....I had to respond to students who wanted to obtain my opinion about the postion they were in, and I had to wait for my Internet connection to be restored (automatic on my system) and then close out the position....
Interestingly we made it through that small event and went on to other trades, and during the day, I heard several comments concerning my state of mind and how I managed to keep on an even keel, even though I had no way of knowing what my trade was doing, and how much I had lost...(it was about $1,0000)....
As our situation stablized we took a moment (I asked both students to stop for a moment and look at the daily charts)....we located our targets for the next trade, and we went back to work in a orderly fashion....what we did was to in effect "re-set or start over again fresh" and from then on we did quite well, I ended the day up about $400 and my students about the same based on small accounts trading no more than 5 contracts.
I think there are many lessons to learn from adversity and loss, among them are the need to understand the following sayings taught to me by my boss "things are never as good or as bad as they seem"....."just relax, breath slowly and take a moment to think about what you are doing" and "always keep your head in the game"..."do not allow yourself to get down, or to get too excited about your wins or losses"
This advice has always served me and my students admirably.
Good luck to everyone.
Steve | Steve46
What I like about what you did is that you keep your students grounded in the here and now of staying focused on the trader's performance in a trade, rather than the anticipation of disaster or of a future event.
The state of mind we bring to the trade opens or closes the possibility and probability of the trade. In dealing with ambiguity, odds favor a calm, disciplined, patient, courageous, and impartial state of mind. Fortunately this state of mind can be built if the trader does not come stock with it.
Rande Howell |
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