Nice post atto. The really only time I will consider a slow play is when I have the stone cold nuts and that's about it. I've been burned too many times by doing what you illustrated - make small bets and then let a guy walk right into his straight draw or some weird 2 pair or something.
I pretty much bet it if I got it now - whether that's top pair or the nuts.
The one thing I have found in poker that helps tremendously (and what I read in a few poker books) is trying to do the same thing every time - whether I have AA preflop or the nuts on the flop - put in a regular, standard raise/bet regardless of how strong the hand is. It's a great way to get paid when you do have AA or the nuts on the flop. Basically, I'll raise to XYZ w/ whatever holding I have and that way the other players don't know if I am making a move with 4,5 suited or AA. Too many only put in big raises with AA or KK and it's transparent. In the end, AA or KK is just a pair. That's it. Can't fall in love w/ 1 pair. (learned that the hard way too).
Last weekend I played in a local charity thing (cash games) and the last 2 nights there I took the philosophy of raise or fold preflop. The previous 2 nights I had gotten too soft on my preflop betting/calling and it cost me. The last 2 nights I did the bet or fold preflop option and I got paid off nicely both nights as I heard throughout the nights 'no way you have a hand again' or 'got tired of you rereasing me'...
The other thing to take from that is another idea throughout poker books - when you are the one doing the betting, you can win 2 ways: 1) they fold 2) you get called and have a better hand. If you call, the only way to win is having a better hand.
I'm a novice poker player now since casinos are not local to me, so only get to play every so often. Seems that some ideas I read in the books take a while to stick.
